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You should note that this doesn't say the best breakup advice is the
easiest. There's just nothing easy about it. With most things in life,
just like breakup advice, the simpler the steps are to follow the better
the advice is.
Why is that? It's best because people will find it a little more
difficult to mess up simple, uncomplicated steps for one thing. Another
reason it's so good is that people will actually put it into practice if
it's simple enough. The final reason simple is best.
There are few steps and even fewer lines to remember
this way. Nothing important gets left out.
So, what's this simple breakup advice that's supposed to be the best?
Be Consistent about Breaking Up
Going back and forth or changing your mind not only sends mixed
messages but it also gives the person you're supposed to be breaking up
with a clear message that you're not really committed to ending things
or attempting to make changes. Since there is something amiss in the
relationship or you wouldn't be thinking about breaking up, it's safe to
say that this is not really the message you want to be sending.
Get to the Breaking Up Part
There's no point in "hemming" and "hawing" around the main message.
Get to the heart of the matter so that you can move on to dealing with
the fallout. Expect some sort of fallout. It hurts when relationships
end and people deal with that pain in different ways. It could be anger,
tears, silent misery, and a need for quick escape. You owe it to the
person you once loved to allow them to deal with the break up as they
need to. Delaying will only prolong the inevitable.
Be Honest but not Brutally Honest
There are times in life when brutal honesty is the best course of
action. This is not that time. You want to be honest about your reason
for breaking up but not at the expense of his or her emotional well
being. This is a time when your ex is down. You just don't go around
kicking people when they are down. It just isn't very nice. Be gentle
but don't give false reasons for calling it off.
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These may not seem like much but they do make an effective method
for breaking up. More importantly they are simple steps and that makes
this the best breaking up advice you might see for quite some time.
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